Hello my Dark Darlings,
Its #SoSS!! My wicked brain has been stimulated this week by several new erotic pen-smiths which I have discovered, thanks to other people sharing links to their posts, so while I'm telling you about blogs you may have visited already, I have to sing the praises of the wonderful erotic stories which I've enjoyed. So please enjoy reading my recommendations, and please 'Share our Shit' onwards!
Pain as Pleasure writes very frankly and tantalisingly about his experiences with mistresses who help him explore and experience the joy of corporal punishment - he also Tweets as @BibulousOne
Cara Sutra's blog has a great story from a guest blogger : Seasonal Erotica by Mel MacFarlane of Voluptasse
The stories on Lucy's blog are wonderful, I suggest this one as a taster, but I could not stop until I had read many of her tales, some of which are linked series. Lascivious Lucy
Nero Speaks is a guy blogging about life and love, with a hot story about a recent sexual encounter ...
And finally some advice from Candy Snatch (as you will see from Petra's interview below, she is held in high regard by other sex-bloggers) on how to take an attractive selfie - very useful for modelling lingerie on my blog, but also very useful in my normal life, where I look very wooden in most photos.
Meet Petra Pan - Sex Toy Tester and Blog Contributor
1. What made you decide to write a sex blog?
I started out as a Lovehoney customer, buying and reviewing items. Then I discovered the Lovehoney forum and got chatting to other users who wrote blogs. I thought, ‘I fancy giving that a go!’ so I created a personal twitter account and messaged someone who had a blog to get some advice. She asked if I wanted to write a review for her, as a guest blogger. That was early in 2017, and I now have several blogs on the RandomRedRose.com website! I’m also a Pleasure Panel member with Cara Sutra and I have over 100 live reviews on Lovehoney.
2. What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
I identify as pansexual (aka bisexual, queer) and I wanted a blogging name with that in the name, hence ‘Pan’. I thought of Peter Pan and wanted to make it sound more female, so Petra was born!
3. Describe your blog in a nutshell:
I’m a practical person, so I like to write reviews like a user’s guide. I also like to detail my experience to help people to make a more informed decision, whether that’s for a sex toy, erotic product or lingerie. So I guess my blogs are ‘practical and personal guides to a sexier life!’
4. How long have you been blogging on this theme?
I started in early 2017, so about 9 months now.
5. What is your favourite type of adult toy?
I can only reach orgasm with clitoral stimulation of some sort, and I also love g-spot stimulation so a dual toy such as a rabbit is my favourite type.
6. If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
The Fun Factory Amorino. It’s a great size, gorgeous colour and the silicone feels amazing!
7. What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
I’m pansexual / bisexual / queer. I’m attracted to all sorts; manly men, girly women, girly men, butch women, gender fluid people... I love bodies and enjoy different genitals, and I don’t really have a ‘type’. I liked girls at a young age, maybe 9 or 10. I wanted to buy a poster of a topless model but my mum found out and went mad. I always felt I had to keep my love of women quiet, so I didn’t openly admit to my sexuality until my early 30’s. My sexuality is rather fluid though, in my 20’s I was only really interested in men.
8. What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
Dressed up... initially! I love wearing something low cut so my nipples skim the material. I feel most sexy in basques and bodystockings.
9. Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
A sex party. I’d love to be watched by a room full of people! Maybe it’ll happen one day.
10. Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
Any of the gorgeous cast from Game of Thrones (Lady Marjorie, Jamie or Cersei Lannister... or all of the above!!). I’d want to do it in the throne room with everyone watching!
11. Anal sex - Meh or Yay?
I tried it once and it hurt, so I’m using anal toys now such as butt plugs and beads. I love them! I’m working my way up to having full anal sex again.
12. Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?
I had sex in the toilets once. We forgot to lock the door and it opened when I was giving the guy a blow job... it was a colleague who had opened the door! Oops! I was very sheepish when we came out of the loos...
13. Sexting - love it or hate it?
Love it! Gets the pulse racing!!
14. Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
A scene from ‘Secretary’ where she bends over her bosses desk for a spanking. He removes her underwear first. He doesn’t let her touch him or turn around. It’s a silent, slightly awkward encounter and she’s totally exposed. I love it!
15. Do you watch porn?
Yes. I prefer sexy books and magazines to porn films though. I like a visual guide but leaving something to the imagination.
16. Nominate your favourite adult film:
I don’t have a favourite film, I tend to watch porn on You Porn so it’s all short clips!
17. Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
I love her vintage / retro style, and her honest and informative reviews. Her photos are amazing too, she’s striking looking and has bright pink hair!
Petra can be found sharing her thoughts and opinions in reviews for Random Red Rose & Cara Sutra's Pleasure Panel.
She is also on Twitter @PetrapanReviews