Saturday, 31 March 2018

#SoSS - Consider it Shared, it's Saturday!

Sharing blog posts which I've enjoyed through the week:-





...and an Interview:-

I met the lovely Missy and His Lordship at Eroticon a couple of weeks ago, we stayed in the same hotel and attended a lot of the same lectures at the convention, so we smiled and nodded, passing pleasantries but not sitting down and having a proper chat ... Oh for a Rewind button!  Since getting back home we have DM-ed quite a lot which has made us realise what an opportunity we missed!  Anyway Missy has kindly lifted the lid on her private thoughts and motivations so we can all understand her better as a blogger.  She's shared lots of great links so do please delve into them too, you may (like I did) find bloggers and sites you want to follow.

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I didn’t start off thinking of it as a sex blog really. We had been D/s for a while and in that time had struggled to find reliable information about how the dynamic worked within a married monogamous relationship. We had been part of an online community which had helped at the start but ended up being too prescriptive. It was one true way which meant ‘their’ way and, like many others, we didn’t fit in (I was actually banned from the community for starting my own blog!) So partly I started the blog as a way to help others who might be starting out and want to know more about how we make it work, and partly I did it so that I could learn and grow in my submission through my reflection and engagement with others. We have since started our own chat community - The SafeworD/s Club.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

I started off online as Mrs W. One day I set up a Facebook account for kink related things and made it Missy Doubleyou. From there I became missy and so when I started my blog it made sense that I should use submissy. Unfortunately on twitter that was already taken so I thought I was very clever using 5ubmissy. Not so much lol. I now realise that there is very little to connect my social media to my site through a search. Maybe that is a good thing, it helps to keep my anonymity I guess. Missy is also a name that Sir can use in public so it works well for me for blogging and also for marking out the submissive me.  

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

My blog is about my journey as a married submissive. 

It has a category for Submissive Musings which are generally my ideas and reflections on things to do with submission. There is also a category for Building a D/s Dynamic where I post the pieces which I think may help or interest others who are (or want to be) on a similar journey. My Submissive Journal category really has all the posts which are personal to me. That is probably the largest category and it’s where I reflect on where I am, where I want to be:  the ups and downs etc that form part of living a D/s lifestyle. There’s also a category for posts about Play, Scenes and Kink which speaks for itself. My newest category is called Projects. It has my Advent Calendar Project and my Throwing Caution to the Window Project which is focused on trying to push myself; working through some of the things which are holding me back - body image being a key one. That’s where I’ve posted my Sinful Sunday pictures. I will also be doing the blogging A to Z challenge and will put other projects there in the future. 

Gosh that isn’t really much of a nutshell, more of a whole nut tree - sorry.  My blog is wordy too!

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

I started blogging at the end of July 2016 so coming up for two years now.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

Gosh I love loads of things. I think that our Doxy wand has become the go-to toy, but we often use it in combination with other things. With a house full of teenagers there are eyes and ears everywhere so a lot of our play has to be on the quiet side. We use the cane at least once a week as I love impact but hands panking and most other implements are too loud for when the kids are home. HisLordship is also a fan of anal so we have a lot of anal toys but I see there’s a question about that down below - how appropriate!

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

Yes it would have to be the Doxy wand simply because we use it so much and I can’t think of anything really which you could use to replace it from everyday life. I think that everything else we could probably pervert from the what we found around about us on the island. 

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I am straight and have never really questioned that. I love female bodies and find them very attractive to look at but it doesn’t really go further for me than that. I was curious, so had a couple of encounters with girls when I was younger which felt nice but at the end of the day I really like cock. I also like being with someone who is physically bigger and stronger than I am as that makes me feel smaller and more vulnerable, which in turn makes me feel sexy. I do think that a lot is about personality and the way that we connect with others so I’d never rule out finding myself in a situation which took me beyond the heterosexual monogamous category I am currently rooted in. 

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

I am nearly always naked for sex but what I wear or don’t wear will be entirely up to HisLordship. Sometimes he will request an item of clothing, or a specific ‘outfit’ but usually I am ‘au naturale’. If I want to feel sexy and entice him I will usually wear something rather than nothing. Sometimes I will dance or strip for him and I will select some lingerie that I feel sexy in, and usually add stockings and heels. The most I often end up wearing for sex is a blindfold lol.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

I have written on my blog about the fact that my fantasies are difficult to describe as they are made up more of snapshots of images, feelings and thoughts than they are a scene by scene account or story - although that would be helpful. This makes it hard to explain them as they are quite bitty. I fantasise most about humiliation and things which are beyond my comfort zone / find extreme so they are not always things I would want to do in that form. 

I suppose one of the recurring ones would be the fantasy of being pushed past myself to the point where I have given up my conscious sense of self and have become my ‘other’ who exists completely for the physical and is pure response rather than conscious thought. It is hard to explain and I have posted about it on my blog - Being Nothing - if anyone wants to know more. 

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

It isn’t a fictional being or species but I did enjoy the Sleeping Beauty Trilogy by Anne Rice. I think that world would be way too hardcore for me in reality but there’s something about it that attracted me to at least visit and give it a go. 

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?

Definitely a YAY. Anal play was one of the things that I fantasised about from quite a young age. It was not something that formed part of previous relationships and when I mentioned it during my first marriage it was met with horror. When Sir and I had sex for the first time he asked if he could put his finger in my bum. I squeaked out a yes and so that part of our relationship was born. Since then we’ve worked up to anal sex but it is not something that we do all the time. It feels completely consuming but sometimes meets a need which nothing else can as it feels quite primal. I view it like champagne - nice for a special occasion but not something you would have every day. Anal play, however, is something that we incorporate on a regular basis and my favourite toy is a glass twister which was what brought about my first anal orgasm.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

I think it is important not to take yourself too seriously in anything really and sex is no exception. There have been lots of funny moments, some more so in hindsight than at the time. I can see the funny side now of being caught over Sir’s knee, lubed up and ready for the glass dildo mentioned above, by my daughter who had come to tell us that there was water pouring through the ceiling on the landing! Funny now, but not so much at the time. Lots of the times we have laughed have been about things that have been said or because Sir is trying to lick inside my ear which he knows I can’t stand. Also during role play such as when I’m ‘Elf’ - my naughtier and cheekier self. I have also laughed hysterically during a forced orgasm scene when I hit subspace and just lost it completely. 

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

Both. As missy I love it and love the thrill of sending HisLordship a picture that I know will get a reaction when he opens it. As my other ‘teacher’ self I hate it as it is a constant source of work trying to provide damage limitation for the nudes that merrily float about the school cyberspace. 
So conflicted is my answer: I see the dangers, I see the pleasure and I do not practice what I preach!

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

I am not big into films and we haven’t watched many erotic ones so I don’t really have an answer for that. 

  • Do you watch porn?  

No, not unless we are watching it together as it does nothing for me in terms of arousal. I don’t mind watching it in an educational sense to get ideas, but I am not really a visual person so it is always better in my head than when it is right there in front of me. Too real maybe? I find the written word much more erotic, in that it leaves something to the imagination.

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

For the reasons stated above, I don’t really have one. Perhaps that should be my goal? Maybe I am missing out. 

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

A special one for me is clearly HisLordship's blog as it has been really helpful to me to read his perspective on the relationship we have and on the way he views his dominance. Obviously we speak all the time but sometimes there is more detail in a written piece and the level of reflection and insight it gives goes much deeper than we’d get through conversation alone. 

I also want to recommend a newer blogger, Sweetgirl, who is one of the submissives I have got to know from The SafeworD/s Club. She writes about her journey into submission as well but also writes a bit of fiction and recently started participating with #SinfulSunday so I want to give her blog a shout out too.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings! missy (@5ubmissy) | Twitter THE CONCIERGE (@thesafewordsclb) | Twitter

Sunday, 25 March 2018

Pink it´s my new obsession ...

Pink it´s not even a question
Pink on the lips of your lover, 
´Cause pink is the love you discover
Pink as the bing on your cherry
Pink ´cause you are so very
Pink it´s the colour of passion
`Cause today it just goes with the fashion

Pink is my Favourite Colour by Aerosmith

Please check out who else is participating in #SinfulSunday,  all of us who post photos would love you to comment and/or share our images.

Friday, 23 March 2018

Sharing - the Male Perspective

Hello my Dark Darlings,

#SoSS Sharing the Male Perspective

I attended #Eroticon last weekend, which if you're a reader rather than a blogger you might not know much about.  It's where us kinksters meet to learn how to do this 'sex blogging' lark better, safer, to reach a wider audience and (hopefully) how to earn money from it!  While we're there we get to meet each other, to turn on-line-contacts into friends and advisers.  Most bloggers keep our kinks and fetishes under wraps, hiding behind false names and avatars, but at #Eroticon we can be loud and proud, dress in what our 'inner self' likes (for me that meant my outfit included boots and a corset!) but some were even more out-there than that!  

I also met the event's sponsors and learned more about what they do, whilst getting a chance to try out a little of what they sell/the service they provide.
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Unfortunately I didn't get to meet Kilted Wookie at #Eroticon, but he's kindly provided me with an interview, so I'm still able to get answers to all my nosey questions for you guys to read!  Before we get into that though, I want to do my usual sharing of links which have caught my eye this week.  Compiling it I realised there was a theme building .... they are all from a male PoV this week, some erotica and some opinion pieces.  Please read and perhaps you'll find a new 'voice' from whom you want to hear more.

#SoSS Links:-
Fishnet stockings - Where's the Catch? @HisLordshipuk
On matters of Men Romance and Insecurity @Charlton_Todd
Sex is Ace! @Bibulous1
Everyone is feeling Sad this week  @NeroTweetsHere
A Handful of Fun  @A_M_Harding
A Girl's Clitoral Piercing @PJAWoode
The Red Brassiere by Elliott Henry (currently taking a rest from Twitter)

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

It all started back in about 2001. I’ve always enjoyed reading erotica on sites like Literotica. The quality varied from excellent to downright awful. Male “writers” in particular seemed to be more interested in describing it purely as an exercise in mechanics: how hard, how deep, how many strokes, etc. The women in these “stories” were simply a means for applying the aforementioned statistics. I was sure I could do better, so I started writing and submitting some of my own. My original blog was simply somewhere, other than erotica sites, where I posted my work.

Skip forward to early 2011 when I discovered Twitter and the blogging community. I was still writing the occasional story, but I was chatting to bloggers and reading and commenting on their work.

Skip forward again to January 2015 when two very persuasive women, Cheryl Kaye and Charlie Powell (or @HornyGeekGirl and @sexblogofsorts to use their twitter names) convinced me to join in with #SinfulSunday on the grounds there was a shortage of cock on said meme. From posting photos, it was only a short step to writing my opinions on things sex related, and by participating in memes such as #MasturbationMonday, #TMITuesday and #WickedWednesday, I started to write more and grow my audience.

There have been a number of ups and downs along the way, but that’s pretty much the potted version of how I got to be where I am today.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

If you weren’t aware, there are two online versions of me: Kilted Wookie and The Zen Nudist. They started of fairly distinct and separate, but the lines between them have become increasingly blurred to the point where they pretty much coexist fairly peacefully.

Kilted Wookie stems simply from the fact that I am Scottish (kilted) and particularly hirsute (wookie). One former partner once endearingly referred to me as Chewbacca’s body-double. It kind of stuck.

The Zen Nudist stems from the fact that I do spend a fair bit of time sans clothes, particularly when the weather is warmer, and I have a bit of a philosophical bent, so the two just sort of went together.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

My blog has been through a number of guises. As I mentioned, originally it was a site purely for my stories.  Next I started adding my photos, and then I started including thoughts and opinions. Then, in one of my blacker spells in 2016, I ripped the whole lot down.

First to return in late 2016 were my stories, under the banner Kilted Wookie Writes… There’s a slight irony there in that, apart from my #SmutMarathon assignments, I haven’t written anything since March 2016.

Kilted Wookie’s Photo Album began in February 2017 when I decided to take the plunge and join in with #FebPhotoFest. I still had the back-up of my old blog, so I was able to include almost all of my old photos. I haven’t missed a #SinfulSunday  since my return and I also did the #FebPhotoFest again this year.

Finally, April 2017 saw the birth of The Zen Nudist. This is where I share my thoughts and opinions on life, the universe and everything. It’s a mix of sex and mental health and is simply somewhere I go to howl at the moon where I need more than 280 characters to express myself.

Although all three blogs are separate, earlier this year I took the step of merging them into a single site. As I said, the lines between the online versions of me are merging.

I also have a tumblr site: Kilted Wookie’s Sexual Artistry, where I share some of my own, more explicit photography, and reblog other images that I like.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

I’m not really a “toy person”. I’m happy enough to use them on my partners, but they aren’t something I’ve used for myself. I suspect, the nearest thing to a “toy” would be the internet for the purposes of accessing erotica and the blogs I follow.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

Based on my previous answer, it would have to be my laptop or my tablet.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I am, by my own admission, boringly straight. I can appreciate male beauty but sexually it does nothing for me at all. So, yeah, for me it’s women all the way.

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

It’s probably no real surprise that I’m a fan of naked. There’s something about the intimacy of skin next to skin that can’t be beaten.

Having said that, I enjoy and have participated in CMNF (Clothed Male, Naked Female). It’s a dynamic, particularly within the D/s side of my nature that appeals to me.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

I don’t think so. I’ve been sexually active for the better part of three decades and in that time I think I’ve pretty much worked out the things that I like and dislike. I’m always open to suggestion, but I know the activities/kinks I enjoy and if I can continue to indulge them, I’ll have no complaints.

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

Totally random, but Anne McCaffrey’s Dragons of Pern.

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?

I can take it or leave it.  If the woman I’m with wants and enjoys it, great, happy to oblige. If it’s something she doesn’t want/like, I don’t miss it. It’s absence or presence will never be a deal-breaker for me.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

I don’t have any specific moments that come to mind, but I do agree that to enjoy sex fully, it needs to be fun; whether that be intentional or not. In my student days I’ve had flatmates walk in on me when I’ve been “entertaining”. I live with a cat, and all that that entails. I’ve had any number of humorous fails and mishaps that you never see in the movies. If you can’t have a laugh when you’re having sex, you’re probably doing it wrong (or you’re doing it so right it should be in a movie).

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

It’s something I have definitely been known to enjoy. One of my recent posts for #F4TFriday was on how sexting can be a particularly effective form of prolonged foreplay.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

I’m old enough to remember the likes of 9½ Weeks and Basic Instinct. As I indicated above, sex in movies, while it can be “erotic” and “arousing” tends to present an image of sanitised perfection where the phone never rings, you never get your arm trapped under your partner trying to change position, end up with a mouthful of hair or any of the other little mishaps that invariably happen in “real” sex. Maybe the closest to “real” I have ever seen in a movie was the scene with Emma Thompson and Jeff Goldblum in “The Tall Guy”.

  • Do you watch porn? 

Not really, no. I like still image (especially black and white) erotic photography, but as a whole, pornographic films do nothing for me. The almost asthmatic moaning and panting is particularly off-putting. Amatuer porn, where the participants are simply fucking and enjoying it rather than trying to put on a performance is more to my taste, but I generally don’t bother.

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

For the reasons given above, I don’t really have one.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

I always like discovering new blogs. My current favourite is Jadis over at Tits & Test Tubes
I would also recommend my fellow #FebPhotoFest participant submiss34f for some truly wonderful photography.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  

Monday, 19 March 2018

Sports Car

Hello my Dark Darlings -

I'm participating in #masturbationmonday by posting a story of in-car mischief (yeah guys - my specialist subject!) but for those not used to English cars, a gear stick is also known as a stick shift.  Please tell me if I've used any other quintessentially British phrases and I'll translate!

Sports Car

He’d already impressed her; tight jeans, flopping fringe of golden hair, low slung dark green sports car.

She wanted to impress him; clingy dress (not the style other girls wore) cut glass accent and big innocent eyes which belied her wicked, spicy side.

They drove home fast down winding country roads with high banks of fragrant grass and flowers, the top of his car down, making her hair whip her face.  Her skirt fluttered and she allowed it, knowing he’d catch a glimpse of stockings clamped with suspenders.  Her heart leaped in her chest when he took the corners fast and competently, the thrum of the sporty engine thrilling her as much as his daredevil driving.  

She placed a hand on his arm as they neared the churchyard, knowing they’d have privacy.

“Let’s park,” her voice was snatched away in the night air, but she knew he’d heard.  

His left hand dropped to the leather-topped stick as he deftly dropped gears and steered the car’s long bonnet up the gravelled path towards the flintstone church.   Killing the engine and turning off the headlights, he plunged them into stillness and silence, but the anticipation beat like a pulse between them.

He turned his head, his beautiful profile making her bite her lip, while her lust drove her to unbutton the front of her dress.  Unclasping the front of her bra she shrugged the fabric away, baring her breasts for him to feast his eyes on her pale skin and pebbled nipples.

He kissed her deeply, while roaming his hands over naked skin, pinching and twisting her nipples which excited her in ways she’d never imagined.  He bruised her lips with bites and caresses, but when his mouth made a hot trail down her neck to her clavicle, she moaned aloud with desire.  She felt tiny and fragile in the grip of his capable hands, he so experienced and she only on the nursery slopes, but the idea of bending to his will was intoxicating.

Her dainty lace panties were sodden, she felt herself liquefying around the fabric and an urge to offer herself to him like a sacrifice, primeval and strong.

“Let me do something for you,” she breathed, her heart pounding against her ribcage with boldness.  “Something no other girl has done.”  She held his gaze, her eyes dark with lust, willing to try anything he asked right now.

He reached under the fabric of her dress, using both hands to drag her knickers over her hips and off, they were soaked, they’d pulled a warm sticky trail down her legs.  He held them near his nose, his mouth, then licked a little of the salty tang before pushing them in the pocket of his jacket.

“Anything?” he asked, his eyes boring into hers with a serious expression, making more moisture flood her pussy.

“Anything,” she nodded, “I want you to remember this fuck. I’m not just another girl.”  Although even as she said it, she was afraid she might be.

His warm hands were on her waist again to fondle her backside through her dress while he thought, then a lopsided smile broke over his face.

“Do you think you could sit on this?” he asked, indicating the gear stick with a caressing hand.  It was large and bulbous, like a small leather pear and had a thicker circumference than any cock she’d accommodated.  She wanted to please him, take his challenge, thinking about it made her feel hot and wet and a total vixen.  She nodded, sure that she could and was delighted to see lust flare across his face.

Straddling the two footwells of the car, she drew her dress teasingly up her thighs. She knew her legs were mesmerising:  tanned, toned and waxed smooth.  Her pussy was also devoid of hair, the dark fleshy folds were naked and sensitive to the slightest touch and now dewy, coated with evidence of her arousal.

She hovered over the swollen head of the gear stick, mentally bracing herself before beginning to lower onto its fullness, feeling a burn as it stretched her wide.  His eyes were fixed on her pussy, watching it greedily swallow the leather bound knob within her hot, moist depths.  His erection swelled insistently against the tight fabric of his jeans.  As she sank lower onto the gear stick she steadied herself, hands on his shoulders. He allowed her to set her own riding pace but kept his hands at her waist, part of the action as she rode up and down slowly, a pony on a merry-go-round pole.

She sighed with the stretch and drag of it, and felt exalted to be exhibiting illicit, lewd behaviour at his bidding.  He dampened his fingers then returned to pinching and twisting her bare nipples, she dropped her head back, lost in the ecstasy of her building sensations.

“Touch yourself,” he commanded and she lightly tapped the tip of her clit with a fingertip, drumming gently, but insistently as her climax focused in on itself.  He released his aching cock from its denim prison and began to stroke it while he watched.  Her skin seemed luminous in the low lux glow from the moon. Her pointed nipples bobbed as she began to judder, her climax almost upon her.  Swiftly he lifted her off the shaft of the gear stick and onto his own throbbing member.

Her moan was a sigh of satisfaction fused with a groan of desire so he pressed his hips up hard, thrusting deep inside her just as her pussy began to throb and clench.  She felt the throbs run up from her toes to her thighs, her molten core grabbing and chewing at the the thick rod of his cock as he fucked her, their combined fever making for a rough and brutal coupling.  Her moans continued, she felt stabs of pleasure, each thrust  touching her g-spot and the spasms of climax radiated out from her core, making her torso twitch towards him.  

He held her down against his groin with an iron grip on her shoulders, while she felt his cock driving its final, fluid-pumping thrust deep within her, leaving her satisfied and validated.  His groan of ecstasy caused her stomach to flip, yet the involuntary pelvic spasms while he emptied his seed gave her a sense of power.  She looked down on him as the waves of her pleasure abated and felt sure this was a fuck neither would forget.

Friday, 16 March 2018

Sharing Long Distance #SoSS

Hello my Dark Darlings!

Well it is going to be a busy, exciting, socialising and working weekend for Miss Posy!  I am travelling to the Eroticon event organised by some of the most active members of our sex blogging community Kayla Lords, Girl on the Net, Southern Sir, Molly's Daily Kiss, Dom Signs.  There will be some very talented speakers (I have special notebook ready for all the tips and advice I'll need to record) but the weekend wont all be work! There are 2 socials to attend, Friday night's has a playlist to which all attendees have contributed a song - I couldn't choose a favourite so I suggested 2!  Filthy Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters and High Voltage by Electric Six.

P.S.  Thanks to those who sent comforting messages when I didn't get through to the next stage of the Smut Marathon.  You are kind, but my pride is only very slightly bruised!  I knew it was a big leap from my first year of writing to competitor and there are so many wonderful authors vying for top position.  Many of my Favourite writers also fell at the first hurdle!  I promise I am cool with it, and now I have more time to write my own stuff (oh the pressure of those assignments) but I am still going to read the entries and vote each month - as should you guys (please!)

So while I am networking, I thought those of you who couldn't attend might like to get to know a fellow blogger (who I hope to be meeting face to face! - such a novelty!)

Please meet my featured 'Dark Darling' - a lady who is living the BDSM lifestyle 24/7 and blogging about it -  
Master's Pleasing Bitch : Julie

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I started the first iteration of my blog in 2012 just as I strayed from my marriage with a man I had met online. He and I explored a bedroom style D/s relationship and I began to describe it online. Given that it was pretty much a diary of my life at the time, I documented my husband finding out I was cheating, getting made redundant and being dumped by my lover. That relationship resumed for a while and ended in early 2014. Since then I have formed a much longer relationship and from the start he encouraged me to continue the blog.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

Master’s Pleasing Bitch. Originally I was known as Joolz and the blog was World of Joolz. This was a long standing nickname of mine and because I am unadventurous I used if for my blog.

Soon after we met, my now Master named me MPB - He loves to call me names like ‘bitch’ and because I am his and like to please that turned into Master’s Pleasing Bitch. It wouldn’t suit everyone, but then I am myself and His. When I moved my blog, I changed the name and it has stuck.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

Predominantly the blog is about me and my journey into BDSM. Since Master and I began our relationship it has been about us. I use lots of meme’s to provide material to write about but pretty much always it is about me or our life together. From time to time I have written about other aspects of my life; the break-up of my marriage, the death of my dad etc. Lately I have begun to explore fiction writing and have joined in with this year’s Smut Marathon.

In the beginning there were few real life photos, but increasingly through #SinfulSunday these have become a feature.

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

My sex and kink blog has been running since 2012 and this current blog format as MPB since late 2014.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

I am not sure why they are called toys? We use various implements from time to time - floggers, canes and the like. Plus restraints and spreader bars. Master has a whole room of equipment that you might refer to as toys. Whatever he chooses is a favorite of mine at the time.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

I prefer a human, but if alone and there are no power issues then a Magic Wand is the thing to have. It’s power is immense!

  • What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for
  • you?

I have always been heterosexual and that won’t change. I have had one experience with another woman, but this was part of a foursome. The female on female thing wasn’t for me.

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?

I am happy to go with whatever my partner prefers. As it happens Master mostly prefers naked, but dressed up for him is about leather and I like that too.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

Not really, we have done most things! We might repeat a few things though...

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

I am happy with humans, thank you very much!

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?

Yay, it is a part of our life.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

In my first outside of marriage affair, we stayed in a B&B. I brought some sexy clothes and toys along with me and then proceeded to leave them in the room. Later I had to return to retrieve them. That was very embarrassing, but in hindsight funny.  She was such a prissy woman, though not particularly old.

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

It has its place so I can’t hate it. I don’t do it now though, there is no need.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

The Secretary was my first experience of anything BDSM related, so perhaps that.

  • Do you watch porn?

Only when Master shows me something. I look at still photos, but usually only when looking for something to put on my blog.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to
  • our reading list:

Go visit Fondlers Anonymous

Visit Julie's very honest and entertaining blog or follow her on Twitter @MPBjulie.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!
See you guys on the other side of the Eroticon weekend - my first public outing as Posy!

Saturday, 10 March 2018

Man! I feel like a woman!

Shania Twain tells it like it is for a girls' night out:

Men's shirts, short skirts 

Oh, oh, oh, really go wild, yeah, doin' it in style 
Oh, oh, oh, get in the action, feel the attraction…

Friday, 9 March 2018

Still Sharing! This Saturday's Interview

#SoSS - Another Interview for your delectation my Dark Darlings!

This week, instead of sharing links to things I've read and enjoyed (because I haven't read as much as usual) I'd like to remind everyone to check out the Smut Marathon entries from the 2nd round.

I'd also like to share my discovery of a wonderful site called FrolicMe - Erotica adult sex stories for women and couples.  To get access to the full content one needs a subscription, but some of the fiction and pictures are available on the free version of it.  I plan to contribute some erotica soon.

Let me introduce my willing guest in the "Comfy Chair" for this week;  Oh Tom Starling whose unusual artworks are both realistic and deep seated in fantasy - look at the wonderful backgrounds!  (Yeah!  you noticed that first, I'm sure!)  

Make the sky burst

An Original Artwork by Oh Tom Starling

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

Porn and gratification on the internet can seem like a waste of time because nothing is ever produced outside of the orgasm. This is a way of getting my rocks off whilst possibly being of some use to other people.

I also believe kinks are as individual as fingerprints so I’m trying to offer something slightly different that might hit the spot for a few people.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

Nothing really. Just a name. I thought having the name of a person might make it seem more engaging rather than ‘Master Ringpiece’, or ‘Sir Darkly’ or any of that nonsense.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

Micro fiction. Erotica distilled into tiny bitesized sentences and images. You never see the whole picture. It’s a collection of moments.

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

There were some dry runs before this venture, but this project has been going for 18 months.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

A person.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

A person.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

It’s fairly fluid. I think I still grow. Once a year I usually find something and think, “oh I didn’t realise that turned me on before”.

I’m always changing and that sexuality changes according to the person I’m with.

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

Clothes. All the clothes. The only porn I’ve paid for is where the people are dressed. I had to pay for it as a premium.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

I would like there to be whole websites and escort agencies that particularly focus in on the kink of World War One nurses. That area of fetish is criminally undermined.

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

George Smiley.

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?


  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

The layers of submission can manifest themselves into strange situations. I once had a sub on a cam site and the 100 or so men watching had to behave and do as I said or I got her to block them. 

I had my own army.

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

Autocorrect can sometimes kill a boner.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

Logan’s Run.

  • Do you watch porn?  

Less so than I did, you become more fussy.

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

Not one, but there is this 1990s porn star called Laure Sinclair, who is hard to find but rocks my boat.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Well this is sort of embrassing because I sort of don’t really read, I just write and create, which is kind of selfish. This lady posts good pictures.

Oh Tom Starling can be found on Tumblr  or on Twitter.  If you wanted to commission a portrait,  they cost £35.  You can email Tom at


Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!