Wednesday, 30 May 2018

Posy's First Time as the Underdog

This tale picks up where “... But words can Never Hurt Me”  left off, but on the second night of a long weekend away from home in a log cabin.

I am, of course, still itching to try out the underwear I’ve brought which is all black straps, dressing my body to look like its in a cage.  I grab myself an early evening shower in the lush bathroom (I can see my naked body in a wall of mirror while I shower, using the soapy hot water to wash away the words ‘lick’ and ‘bite’ I wrote on my skin the previous day.  In the slightly condensed mirror I enjoy how my breasts look -  watching how they lift and move as I shampoo and rinse my hair.

I don’t intend to be caught out like yesterday, with no time to get dressed up as planned, so while my beloved is cooking I open the Bondara pack to work out the complications of the straps!  I’m pleasantly surprised to find that there’s a bra section built in (I had supposed I’d have to wear my own bra underneath)  A tiny thong is also included and fishnet stockings of a fine mesh - this is all very pleasing!  I select my own lacy tap thong to wear because I don’t find the fit of the one in the pack flattering.  Insinuating myself into the stretchy straps, I notice the bra cups will contain my boobs so long as I move carefully!  I slip some comfortable pj’s over the top to keep my underwear a secret ‘til later, then join my man for some food and drink.

All evening I hug my secret to myself: at bedtime I get out the toybox and prepare for the big reveal!  In the past we’ve experimented with some light hand spanking, blindfolds and tied wrists - with me taking charge.  Today, I explain, I’d like him to take the dominant role.  I throw back the duvet and he surveys my ensemble, the sexy black straps subdividing my body, like a grid drawn over my bra, thong and stockings.  It’s a long time since I’ve worn stockings, my man usually prefers hold-ups, but the glint in his eye says he appreciates these!

I show him the array of toys but suggest that I’d particularly like him to try these: some velcro handcuffs and a black mock-croc paddle.  He looks a combination of excited and nervous.  We decide that my wrists will be cuffed together, but not fastened to anything (for this first time).  Piling up pillows to elevate my bum, I feel the butterflies building up in my tummy!

He starts very gently, stroking the curves of my buttocks and tops of my thighs with the smooth surface of the paddle.

“We haven’t used this before.”

“No, I’ve been saving it for the right moment.”

“So you want me to spank you?”

“Yes please.”  I stretch out my bound hands in front of me to remind myself I’m at his mercy.

“Because that’s what it says here.”  He chuckles and lands a spank on my buttock; I’m more surprised by what he said than that first blow.

“Does it still say ‘spank me’ on my bum?”  I strain to look over my shoulder, “I thought I’d washed that off!”

We both laugh while he aims another blow on my other buttock.  “Is that OK?”

He’s being very gentle so I wiggle my butt at him.  “Yeah, I can take harder.”

The spanking continues, he checks in a lot, but to be honest I’m yearning for him to spank harder or more frequently, to give me a build-up of heat.  It’s quite noisy, so I’m glad we’re in an isolated cabin rather than trying this at home!  I sense he’s not really getting anything out of this so I roll over onto my back.  I beckon for him to come up my body, to kneel over my chest so I can suck on his hardening cock.  I love his strong body straddled over me, my submissive feelings are enhanced by my bound wrists.  I sink my mouth over the length of him to lick and suck, feeling him engorge with blood as I hollow my cheeks and lave with my tongue.  Above me, he groans with appreciation and I bob my head with renewed enthusiasm, those noises are my reward, fuelling my efforts.

Soon it’s my turn again, so he buries his face between my thighs and does magical things with his tongue, licking and sucking, while probing and teasing inside me with his fingers.  I lie back to enjoy it, my pelvis still tilted towards him by the pile of pillows.  I let my bound wrists fall back above my head, opening myself up to the sensations building within me.  Memories of the previous night creep into my head adding fuel to my excitement, when he unfastens my suspenders to  tug my lacy panties down my legs.

I feel firm, warm pressure as the tip of his cock nudges at the swollen, sensitive lips of my vulva.  I long to lick away the inevitable drool of salty precum from its helmet, but it’s not me calling the shots today, though I can’t help tilting my pussy towards him with need.  He seems to be teasing me by prolonging the moment before plunging his length into my honeyed depths, but when he places a bullet vibrator into my hand I realise he was rummaging through the toys!

“Cum for me” he instructs, before beginning to power into me, using  long slow thrusts.

I gasp at that delicious, first invasion of his cock inside me, always  a pleasant shock then fumble at the controls of the little vibe with my bound hands to get the device buzzing on a constant, low speed.  Holding it against the sensitive nub of my clit I quickly reach that ‘no going back’ moment when my climax bursts and blossoms within me.  I pulse and tighten with my man’s powerful thrusts of penetration, til we’re both groaning in unison, gasping and grasping at each other as our climaxes drench us in powerful sensation.

Later on when we are all cuddled up together he tells me I'm sexy and how lucky he is that I’m so free about trying new things - he particularly liked discovering the writing on me the day before.  Delighted, I ask if he liked the sexy underwear and he gives it an enthusiastic thumbs up, tomorrow he'll help me to choose his favourite from the pictures I took earlier in the day to enter for #SinfulSunday.  I love him for trying new things for me, but I’m not sure he enjoyed being the spanker, I’ll let things settle and discuss it with him another time.

Monday, 28 May 2018

Under My Thumb

In which Posy ponders BDSM, and whether she could or should ever give it a whirl!

Since joining the kink community which surrounds the Twitter sex bloggers, I have begun to refer to myself as BDSM curious.  I don’t know if it’s an actual ‘thing’ but I use the term as I love to read accounts of impact play and D/s scenarios, the wilder and the more outrageous the better (I suspect that many of these are written by folk like me who have not genuinely gone down that rabbit hole, but who write a good sexy tale).

Being middle-aged (gah! how I hate that label) and in a long term monogamous relationship, I doubt that I’ll ever venture into this kink scene for real.  That said, my OH and I often push our own boundaries, we've tried more ‘new’ things in the last 18 months than ever before!  Another thing about my relationship is that I am the bossy one in the bedroom and yet my yearning is to be dominated!  In my vanilla life, I am quite a people-pleaser, fairly submissive in the workplace and within my family, yet there are some areas where I refuse to bow down: I want to say what goes, and my sex life has become one!

I have talked to a few dominant folk to get their take on things, equally I’ve talked to some submissives - hey I even did one of those silly on-line quizzes!  I think I might possibly be a Switch … but the fantasies of domination continue, sometimes escalating until the erotica I find to read is never gritty enough to satisfy my craving (I spent a whole weekend on recently!  - reading nothing but stories about fuck-toy training!)  

What I have begun to wonder is ... am I a submissive, but to a dominant side of my own personality?

For instance - my waxing regime.  When I notice that my brazilian needs re-booking I'm never doing it for my OH’s benefit, I do it to keep the required smoothness my Inner-Dom requires of me.  I feel the same about letting my pedicure chip or lapses in my leg and under-arm depilating.  I am driven to look and feel right for my Inner-Dom. To add to this I have a kinky glee about the discomfort of the depilator and the hot waxing treatment (although my intimate waxing lady makes it much less painful than anywhere else I’ve tried).  

I also glory in the swollen look my labia has after my brazilian - am I really weird?  I have fantasies that my Inner-Dom would like to see my nipples or my labia pierced, or some sort of branding/tattoo that marks me as 'theirs'.  Fear of the pain and possible infection or numbness in the decorated area usually snaps me out of this fantasy!  (I've had frequent problems recently with my ear piercings, which I've had for years so who knows why.  It makes me think, what if I was prevented from enjoying sex as much as I do now because an intimate piercing wouldn't heal? - Argh!)

I test drive all my sex toys solo - I choose them myself and I try them out when I’m alone.  If I like them and feel that my OH can be trusted with them, then I introduce him to the toys and how to use them  (He almost always says “O my good gawd!” before rising to the occasion and indulging me - although I often suspect he feels intimidated by them!)  There! - that was another giveaway!  I said if I ‘feel he can be trusted with them’.  Analysis of that is : I don’t want to put him in charge of my pain!  Perhaps this means I’m not confident he will pick up on the signals that something hurts too much or feels overwhelming, resulting in me not only feeling the opposite of sexy, but also feeling very angry with him.

I’ve read posts by BibulousOne who is often taken to the limits of his endurance of CP where he enters sub-space and feels euphoric, (if a little vulnerable afterwards) and I am fascinated.  I also know he is a switch and likes to be on the receiving end of the ‘hitty things’ too, but is ever mindful of the responses of his play partner, detecting when she has taken enough.  

Aftercare seems very important - the euphoric highs from D/s play often result in quite a 'drop' afterward.  I can imagine, once the sexual emotions and urges are removed, a submissive person's subconscious might think "why did the person who loves and usually protects me get joy from hurting me?" so the cuddles, strokes and other nurturing routines provided by the Dom/Domme are required to counteract these destructive thoughts.  This is usually not dealt with in the 'fantasy' D/s tales, where the 'master' never comes out of strict/stern character!

I read a post by Joanne (guesting for Girl on the Net) in which a sub samples a fucking machine wearing a ball gag, but holds a bottle of lube which she can drop in lieu of a safeword (which she’d be unable to say if things got too much).  Even in the 'pop culture' of D/s [50 Shades of Grey and similar stories] you will find safewords mentioned! A word is chosen that is close to the heart of the submissive but not in the regular language of sex play - so that when things get too much, or nearly too much they can say it and their Dom will call a halt to proceedings to check whether sub wants to stop completely or take a little breather/ time to process.  The word must be a bit unusual because, while role playing, "stop", "enough" or "don't" could fly from the submissive's lips without them really wanting the session to abort.  Equally it should have 'significance' for the submissive so that, if they slip into subspace it's still a word they can think of to say (I'm no expert, but subspace seems like a trance state where sensations and emotions are processed differently).  JoannesReviews also explained to me that she uses a 'traffic light system' for safewords, which seems very wise, especially for the beginner or during extreme types of play!

I was also fascinated by Sissy Maid Melody’s attitude (responding to Bibulous1’s post where he discussed consent in response to Girl on the Net's post) that even if her session became overwhelming, she knew she would not be able to use her safe word, her submissive attitude being the overriding factor.  Melody has also written a post recently which gives a very balanced view on D/s contracts - hers and GotN's are blogs to follow if you enjoy thoughtful, erudite pieces on issues affecting the kink community.

(Please do read their individual pieces, as I’ve over-simplified here).  

I think my fear is that my OH - a bluff northern male (built like an ox who does endurance events) will not pick up on my signs of distress, if I was unable to use my safe word. Or conversely, he might be too gentle with me, feeling like he might break me, which would just frustrating! and could I depend on him for the correct after care?  Jaime and Eye both reminded me recently that it is the submissive who holds ALL the power and that the play should be directed by them as to its intensity, but still I feel unsure if this role would even sit comfortably with my OH.  He’s quite happy with vanilla sex!

Please those of you who know more about the D/s dynamic than me, give me your thoughts on this!  Perhaps I am not alone in having this outlook without actually needing to try it out, after all many of us read gang bang, kidnap or incest stories without actually wanting to try it in real life.  Perhaps I am just titilated by the ‘taboo’ of it as it is quite a leap away from the sex life I currently have.  

I need lots of comments/feedback on this post please so that I can get my thoughts a little more ordered!

Since writing this posit I've been supplied with a wealth of information and support from fellow bloggers.  Floss has written a post for #WickedWednesday which answers mine and my very next post tells you what happens when I try wrist cuffs and a paddle for the 1st time!

Dom/Domme Blogs I enjoy reading:

Submissive / Poly Life Blogs I enjoy reading:

CP - corporal punishment (spanking, caning, whipping etc.)
D/s - Dominant / submissive relationship dynamic
BDSM -  bondage, domination, submission, masochism (a heading for several kinks which can be related)
Brazilian - intimate wax procedure which leaves no /only a thin strip of hair on the vulva.

Sunday, 27 May 2018


Comin' Up From Behind

Ah She's an eight ball
She's a'rollin faster than a white wall
She's got an avalanche packed into a snowball
She's a losin' all the links
She's like a stonewall
She's loaded up
She's the underdog
Gonna take a mighty swipe
At the high horse
While'a sippin' on her tricks
In a pitfall
Makin' eyes at the girls like bullfrogs
I'm telling you sir
She's comin' up from
Comin' up from comin' up
Comin' up from behind
Yeah She's comin' up from
Comin' up from comin' up
Comin' up from behind
You'd like her hanging
Like a sneaker on a live wire dangling
While your Wall Street pockets are jangling
With the hollow jackpot of your rich kid games
It's a long shot
She's got a troop and a tongue for a slingshot
But she's takin' steady aim
At the big shots
It's hard

Not only do I love these lyrics - but I have a soft spot for the film which featured the song Cruel Intentions - I found Sarah Michelle Gellar a very sexy character, athough I didn't like how twisted and manipulative she was.  [watch the video of the song on YouTube]

See who else is sinning this Sunday by clicking on the lips.

Saturday, 26 May 2018

Have a Kinky Saturday Y'all!

#SoSS - Here we are my Dark Darlings, another weekend has come around and I am bossing you about as to what blog posts you should read!  But, trust me there are some great ones here.  Is it my imagination or are there a lot more contributions for the #MasturbationMonday and the #WickedWednesday memes?  These are great 'sharing' platforms to encourage us to read each other's work.  (if you want my advice - be sure to read part 1 first!  Double the erotic build-up!)

Also this week I found out that it was #WorldGothDay from my author friend @Simononeill - what better way to celebrate than downloading his vampire novel : Blood of the Eternal Moon for some boodthirsty reading!

A fantastic lingerie picture by Petra Pan led me to her review of the sexy, strappy item.

The final part of my Saturday Share is to introduce you to Floss - a lovely kinky lass who writes a sex blog and makes podcasts:
  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

The original incarnation of my blog was just a place to showcase my erotica and poetry. I initially began sharing these thing on the Lovehoney forum, but when the erotica board was closed own, I decided to start something of my own. It was purely fictional and I honestly thought I couldn’t write non-fiction blog posts. When I joined the kink scene and started venturing into non-monogamy flossdoeslife was born. I wanted a place to share my ongoing journey because I was certain other people out there might be feeling the same and I wanted to share my experiences on the off chance if would make other people feel a little less trepidation for their own journey.

I never imagined I would be sharing the most intimate and explicit details of my kinks, sex life and relationships. I wouldn’t change it for the world though.

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

My initial introduction to kink and non-monogamy wasn’t as smooth as I would have liked. While there were positives there were also lots of negatives and an awful lot of uncertainties, especially surrounding non-monogamy. However that was my life, and for whatever reason it was a life I wanted to continue working towards and I decided I wanted to write about my experiences. When I was thinking of a blog name flossdoeslife seemed an apt way of describing things, I am Floss, and my blog is about me doing my life.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

Honest accounts and musings about Kink, Fetish, BDSM and non-monogamous adventures. A safe space for me and my readers to discuss all manners of things without judgement or shame.

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

Actually not that long. My erotica/poetry journey began about 4 years ago. Flossdoeslife however only became properly active in October 2016.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

I’m terrible with toys, I own so many, but use so few. For solo play I do love a good vibrator, however glass dildos are right up there too.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

Without a shadow of a doubt my new Doxy! I am obsessed with it! Buying it is the best thing I ever did for my genitals. In fact if anyone reading has the ability to send me to a desert island with my Doxy, I’m totally up for going! Me and my Doxy would be very happy together.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

Bisexual. I’ve always known this was the case for me before I even knew there was a word for it. When I was little I was hardcore crushing on both Jason Donovan and Kylie Minogue, and it has been the same my whole, always fancying men and women in equal measure. As someone who grew up around a few lesbian and gay relationships and  even people who had been involved with more than one gender in their lifetime, I assumed everyone was this way.

When I was approaching my teenage years I suddenly had the dawning realisation that this wasn’t the case. I came to realise that gay and lesbian weren’t identifiers of that particular relationship, but of someone’s long term identity. I remember wondering what the hell that made me. When I discovered the word bisexual I hated it, because no one was really using it in a positive way, and we were all viewed as people just waiting to come out as gay. Which I did, even though I knew I wasn’t. Then when I married a man I was one of those people who’d ‘just had a phase’.

It took until I joined the kink scene at the age of 29 to start feeling comfortable with using the label bisexual, until this point I had refused to accept any label for my sexuality. Now though I am a proud bisexual woman, although I often have leanings towards queer, and will often interchange between the two, but both feel like a good fit for me.

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

Dressed up! I love all sorts from sexy lingerie to Latex. I’m a big fan of CFNM (clothed female naked male - or naked person depending on who I’m playing with), so my main drive is that I have clothes and my partner doesn’t. Usually I will try and wear something that I think will appeal to their arousal. Just for the extra element of tease.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

So many! Watersports is my main one, mostly because it ties into my growing love of erotic humiliation.

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

Vampires! Not the Twilight breed of Vampires though! Proper ones that are actually sexy! It’s the biting and the bleeding that does it for me!

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?

Meh. Or more specifically, no thanks. It does absolutely nothing for me, except encourage minor cases of piles! Which I can assure you is not sexy. However giving anal sex, that’s a big yay. Well in some cases anyway. If I fancy you and you have a sexy bottom there’s a good chance I’m going to be into it.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

My funniest moment was actually after the event. Myself and Bakji had just finished a really intense session, in a lovely bungalow that we were looking after for my Dad and his girlfriend. Perverts that we are we’d been filming it too, toys and clothes were everywhere. Bakji was naked, I was half dressed, ready to get some serious aftercare cuddles in, when we realise someone is at the door. My Dad and his girlfriend have come home about 5 hours early with no warning.

I promptly open the door a bit saying it’s very messy and could they come back in about 30 minutes. My Dad, who knows all about my kinky life, is being the dumbest he’s ever been and just keeps saying they don’t mind the mess. In the end I just declare ‘Bakji is naked and it's messy.’ My Dad finally twigs, bursts into laughter and says they’ll go to Costa while his girlfriend gives him a bollocking for not calling ahead like she told him to. Afterwards she says to me ‘I hope neither of you are embarrassed, I couldn’t give a fuck what you do while you’re here, so long as you have fun.’ Funny and weirdly heartwarming!

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

Bit of both! I like suggestive and erotic texting more than full on sexting. I’m not a big fan of the term ‘foreplay’ but if we use anything as foreplay it’s our messages between sessions.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

I don’t think it’s meant to be as erotic as I find it, but the piano scene in Pretty Woman! The way he dismisses the hotel staff, then pulls her to him, and her bum clinks all the piano keys and 100% people might be watching or at least hearing, but neither of them care and I just find the whole things really arousing. Then again the whole movie is laced with things I find arousing. To this day it is one I watch over and over!

  • Do you watch porn?  

I do! I go through phases of being super into it, then not being able to find anything I’m into. I’ve never paid for porn, but lately I’ve been thinking I might invest if it means getting something I will really enjoy. Plus some of my recent experiences have shown me creating this kind of content is actually a lot of hard work and I’d really like to recognise that fact by supporting good content.

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

There is a video on Redtube call ‘The Perfect Whip’ and I bloody love it. It is accompanied by Perfect Drug by Nine Inch Nails and is full of Fetish, FemDom and Bondage delights. The full version is without the music and features a lady called Cathy Heaven I believe. The music edit is my favourite though.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Only one? There are truly so many good adult blogs that it is hard to choose, so I am going to go with the blog that contained my most recent ‘God that was good’ moment and that is Violet’s blog at There were at least 10 I immediately thought of, so this seemed like a could way to pick one fairly.

Thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  You can tweet to Floss here:

Tuesday, 22 May 2018

A Dragon Tail - Part 6

You can start here, or you can read Parts 12,  3 , 4 and 5 first.

Later that day Violetta was at the stream again, washing herself clean of the blood and body fluids which coated her skin, but which she’d worn proudly, like a trophy, while she and the dragon had repeatedly played, teased and fucked, finally lying down together to recoup and discuss.  The dragon was to be her master, and she his slave, plaything;  keeping herself ready and willing at all times to slake his sexual appetite.  She was to remain nude, both for his admiration of her body and for easy access to her orifices.  However, in acknowledgement of her thin skin and hairless body she was allowed to wrap herself in animal skins or rugs at night.

The dragon had no intention of hurting her, and ordered Violetta to tell him if any of his sexual practices caused her pain, but he did suggest that many of the games he wanted to play with her might sting or ache at first, but would develop into pleasure.  Violetta could well understand this.  The invasion of his tail into her cunny earlier had felt shocking at first, but had soon developed into the most intense, glorious feelings which had left her enraptured and  very much inclined to try anything he suggested.  

Later she’d been delighted to lick and suck the slick of her juices on and around his ridged tail tip, and the dragon had enjoyed both the sensations her hot mouth delivered and the sight of her - pale veined eyelids closed in rapture while her mouth stretched and her slender neck craned to take his tail in and down her throat.  He’d felt his seed well up from within to spurt out of his cock as the Princess fellated his tail.  With a little encouragement, he felt sure she’d enjoy licking and sucking around his penis tip on another occasion - and he knew it would pleasure him greatly.

The licking and tickling she’d experienced from dragon’s tongue was a pleasure she relived often, even now as she was washing herself clean with the cold running water of the stream.  Violetta pinched and tugged at her nipples, dragging them into aching points the way his tongue had when he wrapped it tightly around the tips of her breasts and squeezed.  She groaned at the combination of the memory and the sensation she was creating making her pussy (it felt increasingly right to call it this)  clutch at nothing while flooding with silky wet juices.  Violetta had never, while pleasuring herself in the past, thought of probing her wet depths with her fingers, there’d always been enough dizzying response created from touching the flesh outside and around her cunny.  

Now she could not touch!  The dragon had sought her agreement that he alone would satisfy her,  so if she wanted to touch herself she must ask his permission.  Self pleasure was now something for which Violetta would be punished, and whilst that thought made chills march up and down her spine while goosebumps rose on her naked skin, it also made her panting and wet!  Her body seethed with excited anticipation at the concept of punishment from her scaly master!  

She tried to snap out of her heavy-limbed fuge, but all she could think of were the many ways he might restrain her and torment her to orgasm.  Her nipples became constant, hard points, straining for the slightest touch (even the breeze, or leaves brushing against them gave her cause to stand still, embracing the throb until it subsided enough to continue back to the cave!)  The lips of her pussy too, were puffy and swollen, her dragon had licked and sucked them so thoroughly that they rubbed as she walked, holding her constantly at a low plateau of sexual arousal.  She was under his spell and his to command.

Meanwhile, in the dim recesses of his cave, the dragon was sifting through his heaps of treasure.  Gold and jewels in abundance, but other things precious to man besides.  He had a set of illuminated sketches drawn on parchment which depicted many sexual acts - often involving more than one man with a woman, or several concubines using their every orifice to bring pleasure to their lord.  The dragon had often studied these and derived great arousal from them.  He intended to show them to Violetta to gradually break down barriers and inhibitions; he also knew some of the things he wanted to try with her required her to be extremely aroused before she could embark on them.  These pictures would be a secret weapon to incentivise her.

He had also found the gold collar and cuffs a previous love slave of his had worn.  The collar had  a circular ring at both the front and the back, so that the handcuff chain could run through either orientation.  The handcuffs were dainty and engraved with intricate patterns and studded with jewels which made them glint and spark when they caught the light.  There were three different chains, all of fairly lightweight links, but their length allowed the handcuff wearer no range of movement, through to some movement, to almost unrestricted movement.

Also amongst the prized possessions the dragon had collected were several dildos, also plugs which could be used to teach and prepare his love slave for the pleasures of sodomy.  The dragon felt quite dreamy when he began to imagine how Violetta would look kneeling before him in her collar, with her hands fastened close together in front of her by the shortest chain.  He would use this gold bulb-shaped plug, decorated at its stopper end with a large multifaceted ruby, and he would start by licking and probing her with his snake-like tongue, alternating between pussy and arse, until she was groaning and keening with need, thrusting her hips back at him.  At this point the dragon would let his split tongue penetrate both holes - her pussy first, sweet with tangy juices, then her tight anal whorl.  

He knew from experience it wouldn’t be long before her gasps became begging cries for him to use her, to give her more.  Oh how it made his loins throb with desire to hear the cultured voice when a sex slave begged him to do unnameable things to her!  This would be the moment when he could begin pressing the cold, unforgiving plug at Violetta’s sphincter.  He hoped she would’ve abandoned all thoughts at this point except a pursuit of pleasure, so that he’d find pressing the cold metal plug inside her would be a slight stretch followed by a welcome feeling of fullness.  He knew it would be an alien sensation at first, an invasion of something cold and heavy stretching her in a way she had never experienced.  If he prolonged his licking and probing of her pussy and clitty, Violetta would soon be grinding her pudenda against his tongue and cumming over his face!  Perhaps she’d even gush and spend as she had done that morning - oh what joy to have found a princess who could ejaculate!

My #WickedWednesday submission for this week -
Do check out the link to see what others have posted.

Monday, 21 May 2018

Masturbation - When it Doesn't Go to Plan!

Masturbation Monday

Let me tell you about my most spectacular masturbation ‘fail’ which happened during the month of April, when I was participating in #30daysorgasmfun (organised by Tabitha Rayne).  

It was a funny old situation, I was home alone because my OH was taking our eldest back to his student accommodation.  I was watching TV in bed, both the dogs sitting on the duvet.  I thought "they won't notice, do what you gotta do" but as soon as I switched my vibe on, they both looked up at me!  They kept watching me, obviously wondering where the high pitched buzz was coming from, but I carried on.  Lubed up, I was  gently stimulating the outside lip area with the g-spot vibe.  

After a while I wanted more, so I began to gently penetrate with the glass dildo - I love it when it's chilly (it  feels like a ‘punishment’ to take it in all cold: my kink I suppose).  This was all feeling lovely but I wanted more, mental stimulation perhaps, so I tried to read some erotica.  But - I couldn't advance the pages on my i-pad as both hands were busy!  So I put my i-pad down, closed my eyes to get into it a bit more (the dogs were no longer watching - thank goodness) then the vibe ran out of charge!  FFS!  

Never mind, I had a wand within reach, but it has a much harsher buzz and it tends to tickle or overstimulate.  I carried on masturbating as best I could, having uploaded Frolicme on my i-Pad so I could  watch a film instead of reading, but I realised I'd gone off the boil.  No matter if I thrusted more, deeper, faster,  twisting the glass dildo to feel all its ridges!.  This happens to me sometimes, so I just gave up.   I had at least felt lovely tingles, my pussy engorging with blood and opening up like a flower; I just lost heart in it.  

However the next morning I used my Lelo Sona Cruise in the shower,   I held it against my clitoris and the wishbone shaped fleshy area which radiates down from it and I had a whopper of an orgasm!  I find it very intense thrumming myself while trying to remain standing- so I guess the previous night’s failure counted as edging!

Saturday, 19 May 2018

Legs Eleven


She's got legs, she knows how to use them
She never begs, she knows how to choose them
She's holdin' leg wonderin' how to feel them
Would you get behind them if you could only find them?

I've always loved this song, and in my teens I yearned to be one of the sexy girls in their videos.  Now (a few decades later) I actually feel like I could be!

Click the lips to see who else is sinning this Sunday.

Lets Share Because We Care

Another Saturday has come round, my Dark Darlings!  So you know that means I shall be sharing, not only wonderful smutty blog posts that I have read which I think you should check out, but also the workings of another wicked mind, sex blogger and toy tester  extraordinaire Joanne Summers.  She is also an activist against non-body-safe materials in toys & lubes - Hurrah!  Unfortunately none of us could meet Joanne at Eroticon 2018 as she was unwell at the last minute, but you will feel as if you've chatted with her once you read this article.

  • What made you decide to write a sex blog?

I started my blog out of the frustration of not being able to find reviews in the niche of Fucking Machines. After reviewing the first fucking machine I had bought I started reviewing sex toys that I owned and started to build my confidence as a writer and reviewer.

I now review anything adult related and my blog has introduced me to some very kinky sexual practices such as electrostimulation and BDSM.
As a young woman I was forever getting yeast infections and with hindsight it was down to the use of jelly sex toys as I was none the wiser at how this type of material cannot be kept clean. Knowing what I know now I want to spread the word to educate.

It still amazes me just how unregulated the sex toy industry is and I am aghast at how some of the bigger names still rely on porous materials, knowing that other safer materials are available but not caring as they are only interested in their profit margins.

One of my main aims with my blog is to educate people about body safe materials whether that be for sextoys or lubes. 

  • What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?

I review under the pseudonym of Joanne Summers as I wanted an alter ego that sounded just like the girl next door and was down to earth. I opted for Joanne, as my best friend in the whole universe is a Joanne and it was a little in joke at the time I started my blog as - like me - she does like her toys so it sort of fitted.  And well, I like the name.

Summers came from the name of one of my favourite TV characters in my teens – Buffy Summers. Yes I know it’s corny but it was a great show (at the time) and David Boreanaz – ooooh, many a young girl's fantasy! So that’s where Joanne Summers came from.

  • Describe your blog in a nutshell:

My blog is a mismatch of product reviews, educational articles, erotic fiction and insights into my life. I put my all into my blog and have shared some very kinky moments (and videos) on it. I do all of my own design work, coding and pictures for the blog so it really is a little piece of me.

For years I hid my disabilities on my blog but now I am open and frank about my conditions and my blog has helped me to come to terms with my worsening health.

I am now assisted by Stunt Cock (my partner) and the lovely sub ‘r’ my submissive who helps with BDSM kit reviews.

  • How long have you been blogging on this theme?

I am now in my fourth year of blogging and it has been a long uphill struggle but I am finally comfortable and confident enough to let most of the anxiety of running a blog go and so I can focus on enjoying it more.

  • What is your favourite type of adult toy?

Oh that is a hard question as I am into so many things. Two years ago I would have said definitely sex machines but now I’m torn between sex machines and e-stim equipment. I love hands-free orgasms and both of these types of toys allow you to just lay back and get off over and over again if you want.

  • If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:

It would have to be the Sybian as on a desert island with power, noise wouldn’t be an issue!  and that bad boy makes all  your troubles melt away.  I love using one and it was the first sex toy to actually cause me to squirt when orgasming.

  • What’s your current sexuality?  At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?

I am bisexual, I was always bi curious in my younger years but was brought up in a very strict religious family and I never had the opportunity to explore that side of my sexuality. Once married though I experimented in my twenties and realised that I like the best of both worlds.

  • What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex?  If dressed up, how so?

Another great question, I prefer dressed up as I have lots of curves, lumps and bumps LOL. Dressing up gives me confidence, I know it is silly but that is just how I am. I love leather, PVC and also lacy things so I am often in a mismatch - looking like a cross between a dominatrix and playmate.

  • Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?

I have lived out all of my kinkiest fantasies and have done most things in the past. I revisit my favourites but mostly I fantasise about my experiences and ways of tweaking them to make the activities even hotter.

  • Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:

Dragons, I have always had a thing for dragons and I guess the domination aspect of a Princess interacting with a powerful beast touches on my submissive side. I often used to masturbate in my younger years living out dragon fantasies so if I could have an encounter with anything it would be huge, scaly and breathe fire.

Posy says:  I can see from your comments, that you have been enjoying Dragon Tale - my ongoing sexy saga!

  • Anal sex - Meh or Yay?

Oh hell yes, with the correct warming up and lube of course. I used to hate it as it was painful but that was because of what I didn’t know (but do now). If I could offer two bits of advice they would be: 

  1. use lots and lots of good quality body-safe lube  
  2. warm up with fingers and toys first before taking it gently.

  • Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?

When I was courting I was in my bedroom with my fiance (at the time) making out and we were playing hide the bullet vibe, if you know what I mean. Anyway to cut a long story short I hid the bullet vibe deep inside me vibrating away when my mum suddenly burst into the room.

I shut my legs and stood up blushing profusely with the vibe still buzzing away. My mum's chin hit the floor followed by the vibrator - that dropped from between my legs and proceeded to walk across the floor towards her!  She quickly left the room closing the door but tea that evening was a very uncomfortable experience! LOL.

  • Sexting - love it or hate it?

Not really my thing; now naughty phone sex, that’s another matter. I must be showing my age.

  • Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?

It may be an unusual choice but it would have to be Deadpool. The sex scenes are funny and unusual in that I have never seen another mainstream film that touches on pegging so I love it.  A close second would be the sex scene in Team America as that had me almost wetting myself.

  1. Do you watch porn?  

I watch a lot of porn when I masturbate and enjoy lots of different genres.

  • Nominate your favourite adult film:

It is a really old series that we used to rent on VHS when we lived in Germany and it is called Excuse Me. It features an old guy called Harry who approaches random women and asks them to go back to his hotel room to strip and model for him for cash. Its corny and he rarely gets his end away but it’s just so naughty and it definitely has a nineties vibe to the series.

  • Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:

Check out Kinky Kitten Kim, she does some fantastic reviews and I have been lucky enough to have actually met her at a trade show and she is lovely.

Joanne is a married mother of two with a kinky streak a mile wide. She reviews sex machines and toys in her spare time and is heavily into e-stim and electrosex. Her site focuses on providing sexual education together with informative reviews and she enjoys interacting with her readership.

Twitter: @JoannesReviews

Thank you so much Joanne for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!  Here are the blog links which grabbed my attention this week - do please visit them and then browse around these talented bloggers' sites.