Here we are, ready for another #SoSS Saturday of sharing? Not only blog posts I've enjoyed but a great interview with a sex blogger - lets get cracking!
My Dark Darlings, I'd like to introduce you to a friend of mine who has always encouraged my writing - in fact she was kind enough to publish my "Burlesque" post on her site. You might have seen her at Eroticon, although she was feeling fragile with morning sickness so was rather quiet. A very hardworking blogger and a beautiful soul - meet Pixie who blogs at submissiveheart.co.uk
- What made you decide to write a sex blog?
Blimey! Well I started submissive hart as a creative outlet, to share an insight into my lifestyle choices and maybe meet new people. But it quickly became something so much more than that. It is something that makes me happy and I take a great deal of pride in it.
- What’s behind the title of your blog or your blogging “name”?
Well I’m Submissive and everything I do is done with heart. It also ties in to my name!
- Describe your blog in a nutshell:
It is the life, love and ramblings of a submissive housewife. Living a poly, bi, D/s life, with my husband and 3 submissive playmates
- How long have you been blogging on this theme?
18 months in this incarnation. But I have blogged for 3 years before hand and also write a blog for my day job.
- What is your favourite type of adult toy?
Oh that’s a tough question…. would have to say rope and floggers. I’m a huge pain enthusiast and love being tied up!
- If you were sent to a desert island (with no power issues) name the 1 adult toy you’d take with you:
No brainer, We-vibe sync. Then maîtser could play with me, even from home!
- What’s your current sexuality? At what age did you realise this was the right ‘fit’ for you?
Hmmm well I’m bi sexual and have knwn this since I was 15 years old. But for me sexuality is so much more than which sex you fuck. I’m poly and open, that is a huge part of me, I have other male and female partners and we as a couple (or family) play together, and that is because I feel happiest doing that. I'm also deeply submissive, and that impacts on the type of sex I have, but again that makes me happy.
- What’s your preference - naked or “dressed up” for sex? If dressed up, how so?
Oh dressed up all the way! There is something about maîtser undressing me that I love. I also love quickies in public spaces or playing in public places. Like when I had a dress on and got told to take my panties off while sat in Starbucks . His wandering hand made me cum quite hard and knowing we could get caught was amazing!
Maîtser say his favourite form of dressed up for sex is posh undies and a collar.
- Is there a kink or fantasy you’re yearning to try?
Knife play and needle play. But we have to find a way that is really low risk of infection. The other one is some form of pet play, but just for fun!
- Name the fictional being or species you’d most like to have an encounter with:
Owwww tough one, well I would say a werewolf. I have a big thing about being hunted and preyed upon. Think kinky little red riding hood.
But in a non sex way I would have to say unicorns!!
- Anal sex - Meh or Yay?
Yay all the way on this! Even more so with a bullet vibe on your clit!
- Sex needn’t always be serious - do you have a funny moment to share?
God so many, where would I start? We had a contest once to see who could deep throat a banana and then bring it out again without marking it. One of the girls taking part was super competitive and open her mouth so wide she dislocated her jaw.
There was also the time kitten decided to eat fruit out of my pussy and lost a strawberry . I had to go to A&E and had a sho looking for it for 45 minutes, oh the shame Lol
- Sexting - love it or hate it?
I use to not even think about it , but then I read a great article by candysnatchreviews and now I’m hooked on it! Maîtser love the cheeky leg or boob pics and naughty text he gets through the day. It’s led to a few lunch time dashes home to punish me and I’m pretty sure it was one such trip that led to baby number 3 being on its way.
- Which mainstream film depicts your favourite erotic scene?
The phone sex scene in the Truth about Cats and Dogs. It’s a late night phone call that leads to them having amazing phone sex. Something I now love doing with maîtser when he is away.
- Do you watch porn?
Hell flippin' yeah! Why would you not?
- Nominate your favourite adult film:
Don’t have a favourite film, I’ve not found a BDSM one that actually looks realistic. However I adore Dana Jones stuff. It’s good clean, hot fucking at its best.
- Before you go, please tell us 1 adult blog (aside from yours) which we must add to our reading list:
Oh lord I can’t give you 1 , so your getting 2! My editor and writing partner Aedan O’Healy. When he write he sets fire to the screen! And also tits and test tubes , huge fan of this young lady: Beautiful , thoughtful and thought provoking writing, that is hot a hell!
Pixie, thank you so much for sharing your more ‘private’ side with me and my Dark Darlings!
To follow Pixie on Twitter : @PixieHeartblog
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To recap what content I've shared this week
A writing collaboration with PJA Woode for FrolicMe:
#WickedWednesday on the theme Release:
#MasturbationMonday - A fantasy story I'm serialising: